27 Nov 2023
Shannon Frost
Greenstein
Full Moon
Dec 12th
Nov 13th
Highlights from
the Conversation
with Jolene
After Dolly Parton
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene …
I wonder what it’s like to be you.
Unbridled power in those eyes of green,
and the skill to wield it, too.
I know you were not expecting me
but I have to say this to your face;
without him I feel no reason to be
because nothing hurts like second place.
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene …
The sight of you brings only despair.
You say we are women on the very same team
but around you, there is not enough air.
You tell me that it’s just a crush
and that you have no feelings for him,
but I know winning can be a rush
and you might just get the whim.
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene …
Please give me the chance to try;
I may no longer be in his dreams
but I am still the one by his side.
You do not know our journey
or the love we’ve built over time;
you don’t have to hire an attorney
to divvy a marriage past its prime.
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene …
I implore you to leave us both be;
if you have ever known compassion
please offer some to me.
I appeal to your conscience
and to the humanity we share;
I appeal to your humility
when you see him anywhere.
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene …
I think that we are through.
But if he says your name again
I will be back for you.
Behind the poem...
Doesn’t everyone compare themselves to their partner’s ex? I’m still batshit envious of someone who once sought my partner; someone who seems more attractive, successful and worthwhile than me whenever we’re compared. So Dolly Parton’s Jolene spoke to me on a fundamental level. There’s so much love between my partner and me; so much fear in losing my soulmate to another. This makes my poem something of a thought experiment: an imagining of what might happen if I were ever to face my jealousy and the person at whom it’s directed. Had Dolly confronted Jolene, this is how I believe their conversation would’ve gone. It’s also a take on how my own conversation might go someday.